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This morning we woke to a few inches of snow that fell stealth and silent in the middle of the night. School was cancelled again but the bakery was open, so we took the dog into town to get a cup of coffee. She loves running circles through the snow and collecting a little beard of it under her chin.
Up the road we passed three girls in their early twenties building a snowman on the front lawn of a little rundown house. They had dressed him in denim and eye glasses and were currently engaged in a debate over what medium to use for his facial hair. They'd been at it for a while and seemed to be having such a good time.
Lately, even when I'm working hard at one thing, all the other things I have to do hang over my head like a cartoon storm cloud. It's a terrible trick of the imagination to be haunted by this cloud, to feel lazy even when you're working all the time.
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The morose professor continues to show up twice a week in a complete whirlwind, throwing his head on his desk and muttering, "Victim of circumstance! Victim of circumstance!" He said that the first day that he was late, when his dog got loose and had to be chased down, and apparently he liked the sound of it because now he says it all the time.
My organic chemistry professor is the sweetest woman I've ever met. She looks like she just stepped off the front of a box of pancake mix. She's always calling our class "a group of lovely, beautiful people," and she goes on sublime tangents to help us remember our functional groups. "COOH means carboxylic acid," she'll say in a deep Mississippi drawl. "I can just picture that rascal cat Sylvester dippin little Tweety Bird's feet into a bucket of acid and what does that little bird say? COOH!" And she'll pause, her eyes moist, and say, "I just love Looney Tunes."
To be honest, not since I was fourteen have I been worried about needing an extra hi-yah in the bosom. But I spun around and sang out, "I'll take it!" without a second's hesitation. After all, everyone keeps telling me it's My Big Day.
I came home late the other night, and David was lying on the couch, watching animals on TV and holding the sleeping dog on one arm. "What are you watching?" I asked.
"Otters," he said, and I felt something like a tidal wave of affection hit me. For him, for the napping dog. For our little house with the blue and gray kitchen that looks like an Airstream trailer and the banner of cards and letters that we use as decoration. For the dying pink Lilly and the foil corpse of the the Valentines Day Balloon he bought me, now hovering over the living room floor with its last gasp of helium.
So as for me, it's a nice time. There's plenty of anxiety; I worry about the writing fizzling out, about my shoulders not being sculpted by my wedding day. I worry about my children, who are not here yet, but who are already starving because their mom didn't go to nursing school like she should have.
All of that is to be expected. When it comes down to the day by day, minute by minute side of life, this is a nice time. This is a good winter.
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20 comments:
From the paragraph about the twenty-somethings in that in-between time, to the descriptions of your professors to everything about David and otters and homes and anxiety about the future, I grinned. You write it all so accurately and so beautifully, Melina. It just makes me smile at the raw beauty of life.
Another great post. Keep 'em comin'! :)
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I needed to read words that are kind to this winter and kind to the period of life so many of us seems to be in - past that sweet, innocent 20s stage, but not completely wrapped up with solid careers or families.
And, yes, that line about otters. It made my heart swell for you!
I think your shoulders will be plenty sculpted- something to cross off your worry list! ;)
Haha oh the the little extra hi-yah brought back memories. I remember picking my wedding dress and the sweet attendant bringing me some creepy little chicken cutlet looking things...and I just laughed and laughed.
You feel like a dear friend. Please, keep writing and sharing your thoughts with us. They are so good and I can't wait to read your book someday :)
Haleigh, you guys feel like dear friends to me as well. Thank you.
Bekah, your description is perfect. xox
I love the description of "a tidal wave of emotion" for Dave.... I get that at the most mundane times with my hubby, and its a fabulous thing. It's easy to feel the love when you're being romanced....but to feel the love because your partner took the laundry up without being asked, or is playing legos with your kids....it's a pretty awesome connection to have with someone and I'm so glad you found it!!
PS. Your little red headed babies (and yes, besides you thinking they're hungry, I've already decided they all have red hair!) - they won't starve....you're too resourceful! ;)
It's the best kind of tidal wave, isn't it Sarah? It's like every kind of love wrapped up in one.
So very much loved this! We watch otter videos all the time with our two-year old, you are totally ready to parent a tiny human! And also, said two-year old loves to see your pup on Instagram! Cheers from the snowy-ish south.
When the leaves on your lily have died back/browned completely pull everything (dirt and all) out of the pot and stick it in the ground with southern exposure and enjoy it year after year!
That cartoon storm cloud needs to take a hike! I see it every now and again, behind a dirty closet, under unfolded laundry. Even in my workplace hiding in the corners of my manager's eyes. But you know what. I figure we have these coke bottle-thick glasses that we mistakenly pick up sometimes that bring this cloud closer than it really is. Kind of like that side view mirror that says objects appear closer than they really are. When I'm able to slow down, even if for just a moment, I realize these glasses are on and when removed, I can take in the warm sunlight, and the clouds just fizzle out into thin air.
That time after college paragraph--boy is that true!
For some reason, this post makes me think of the "Father Reason" poem by Rumi.
"But Father Reason says, No need to announce the future.
This now is it. Your deepest need and desire
is satisfied by this moment's energy
here in your hand."
There's so much energy in your hands, Melina. Don't worry. Your kids will be full. <3
You have such a beautiful writing voice :) I'm so happy that you're in such a sweet stage of your life.
Melina, your posts are so beautiful. I have to always read them all twice just to savor the words you string together so lovingly. You are a gifted writer! I get so happy when I click on your blog link each day and find a new post! Even if there isn't one there, I still read them over and over and over.....
I love how much you've been writing lately.
This was beautiful :) Thank you for your words!
It's so easy to "should" yourself into a panic attack. This year I'm working on not allowing my to-do list to overwhelm me. What does any of it matter anyways? I tell myself. Working on appreciating the now. And relaxation is important to me, I'll never get as much done as other because down-time has its priority too! See if you can cut yourself some slack next time you feel yourself getting worked up. You can do it!!
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